Lean In the Right Direction

It’s been a while since I did a Kingvegas post. Well, today I’m feeling one. I turned 50 recently and things have changed a bit for me internally. My mortality is staring me right in the face. For one thing how did I suddenly get to be 50?

If there’s one thing that I’ve learned so far (besides the other stuff) it’s that doing things is important but what you do probably makes the biggest impact on your success in life.

If you want to be a better guitar player you have to practice but how and what you practice is the difference between plunking out a few chords or gracefully burning through a masterpiece.

If your goal is to be a millionaire and you spend all of your time washing dishes your efforts are not aligned with your goals.

Align your efforts with your goal by reverse-engineering success, conceiving a plan then consistently doing the work to achieve that goal step by step. You may adjust your plan along the way but if you don’t plan, push and persist it will probably never happen for you.

“Dare to dream/Set a goal/Make a plan/There ya go”

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Frustration is My Fuel

As I sit here in a Starbucks feeling a bit frustrated I’m reminded that frustration is actually a fuel for me. It pushes me into taking new kinds of actions. When I get tired and frustrated enough of my current situation I finally stop beating my head against the same wall and look for a door or a window or something.

Progress is made not only by regular application of effort but changing who and what you are in the process. Not just playing your instrument but digesting new material, mastering new techniques, writing new songs and so forth. Playing the same material that you already know is like working the same job and doing it the same way over and over again. Until you get to the level that you want to be at you have to constantly be pushing onward and upward. Once you reach “that level” it probably won’t be enough, either so you will continue to learn, master material and grow.

When you start feeling frustrated it’s a signal that you are not satisfied with the situation that you are in. What can you do to improve you circumstances? Are you doing the work and acquiring the skills and knowledge necessary to get to the next level? Are you surrounding yourself with others of a like mind? Are you seeking out new ideas and opportunities for growth and progress?

My challenge is to turn frustration into productive action and not allowing it to turn to anger and getting caught up in my feelings. I must recognize the frustration and realize that I need to step back and take a look at what I’m doing and what changes I need to make in myself and/or my situation. The frustration is a little fire in my gut to help me to expend the time and energy to make the changes necessary for me to get past (and over) whatever is making me frustrated.

I find that it’s also helpful to have your goals written down somewhere where you will see them. When I feel myself getting frustrated I can look at what it is I’m trying to do, what I have accomplished and what my next steps are so that I can “stay in the zone” so to speak. In my case I’m working on using a website as a place to keep my goals, my lists, to document my efforts and so forth. When I open up a browser that’s my homepage so I can check my lists, note my progress, document thoughts and ideas and so forth. Though I prefer to write things down I find that I end up with tons of pieces of paper all over so the digital workflow scrapbook is a better way.

So a reminder to myself- TURN FRUSTRATION INTO FUEL.

 

 

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What You Do and Don’t Do

When trying to make progress in life (or even just stay afloat) we are often looking for advice on what to do but sometimes it’s what we don’t do that will make a big impact in how quickly we progress (or if we do at all!)

I first came to this conclusion when I was trying to lose a little weight and I was running on the treadmill watching the calorie counter go up oh so slowly… It occurred to me that instead of trudging along on this treadmill I could just pass on the bag of chips. Boom! There’s 160 fewer bad calories with not even an iota of physical effort.

Now if I would pass on the bag of chips and do my cardio then I was making some real progress. I find that progress builds on progress. When I see myself moving forward it inspires me to stay the course and continue to progress. If I’m working out regularly but not seeing much improvement in my body composition then do I just work harder or eliminate the real problem- a poor diet?

When practicing it can be easy to fall into old habits, play old licks that are comfortable, try to play things without slowing them down and cleaning them up, etc. The time saved in tackling new material as well as starting at the beginning and working up instead of just haphazardly throwing stuff together saves a lot of time in the long run and you will see your playing improve dramatically. I have to check myself on this pretty much daily. Yes- warm up with something familiar for a few minutes but always be looking for new ideas and learn them correctly then play them at tempo.

Do your best not to engage in behaviors that are bad or non-productive habits and make it a habit to work hard and smart. By eliminating the non-productive habits from our lives we can really enhance the positive work that we are already doing. The effect is truly exponential.

I challenge you to find just one habit that is setting you back- whether it’s alcohol, ice cream, too much non-productive time on social media, watching TV or playing the same old licks over and over. Replace those habits with healthier and more productive habits. But try just one. Give it 30 days. See what happens!

(my challenge is to lay off the ice cream. my goal is to lower my body fat. just one thing…)

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The 500 Song (The Abarth Rocks)

The 500 Song (The Abarth Rocks) by Smokstik

Here’s the first Smokstik release of 2016. I’ve been working on this tune for a few years and finally got it finished. I hope that my output of new Smokstik material will be much better in 2016. I have a bunch of unfinished tunes that just need a little polish to be ready to go. I play Warr Guitar, sing and program the drums on this one. (as well as writing and recording it)

For more info about this track check out the full post at Smokstik.com.

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Musician vs Entertainer

The other day it dawned on me what the difference is between working as a musician and working as an entertainer. Those two terms may coincide but not necessarily. In the process of trying to get my own game together I not only reflect on my past and present efforts but others’ as well.

Many people in and not in the music/entertainment business consider a career as getting a job or jobs. Most people seek to work for someone else or be a part of someone else’s business venture. It’s the same with the music/entertainment industry. Getting a “job” is getting a “gig”. Doing jobs is called “gigging”. Sidemen and cover musicians do “gigs”. Entertainers do “shows”. Travelling shows tour. A tour is a collection of shows played in locations other than an act’s home base.

Gigs typically have finite immediate and future earning/growth potential. You are usually limited to either the kinds of performances that you perform and what they pay and/or the amount of money that the artist who hires you pays sidemen. There is often little if any equity built up in a project doing “gigs”.

Musicians often show up to gigs and do performances as just another job with little consideration of the quality of their performance, appearance or promotional aspects. Just another $100. Which over months and years ends up being the same kind of $100 gig because the entertaining element of entertainer fades away. As time goes on and technology advances audiences’ expectations go up as the quality of general performances stagnates or falls behind.

A cover musician performs other people’s music for pay. In a perfect world cover musicians would tailor their setlists to accommodate the largest (or best-spending) crowd that they possibly can. For some reason (ego, complacency) cover musicians often instead play what they want to play or dated material that doesn’t appeal to a greater potential audience. The venues that hire them are expecting to profit from having live music and make more back than they spend. At the very least hiring live music should enhance the ambiance of the venue and at least pay for itself. The glut of musicians stuck in old ways playing old music for an ever-evolving audience that tends to be in their 20’s combined with the ever-increasing number of entertainment distractions available to people makes it more and more difficult to get people out to see live music. Add to that the undercutting and cheapening of musician wages by venues and the musicians themselves and you have a recipe for the slow demise of the working cover musician.

As a qualification cover musicians who perform shows tend to make the most money. The shows often imitate or duplicate the quality and production that an original artist might present. If you want to get paid well as a musician or an entertainer you better put on a show.

My second part of this (sorry for the digression on cover musicians) is that original artists are in fact entertainers and do shows (concerts)- not multiple weekly gigs in their hometown. They are expected to present a high level of musicianship and performance when they do perform and typically tour when they do live shows. Promoting the artist and the music involves radio interviews, TV appearances, print features, “promo tours” and so forth as well as regular social media engagement and brand-building. Staying current and relevant is a necessity. Not taking the role of entertainer seriously guarantees that one will not be successful as an original artist.

The kind of work that needs to be done for an original artist at points intersects with playing covers but in many ways diverges as well. A successful tribute group may use many elements of being a recording artist to their advantage but at the end of the day it is someone else’s music and they don’t have any ownership in it. This factor really limits the potential of a cover act. Though most original acts don’t do all that well the ones that are successful create the music that we listen to, copy and so forth and they (hypothetically) get PAID for it. Broadband internet and so forth have definitely changed the business but there is still a lot of money and many millions of fans to be had if one pursues the current methods and streams of income.

The goal for most of my cover musician bretheren is to play a few nights a week for as much money as possible- which often ends up being $100-200 (or less) apiece with occasional spikes for private events and so forth. The thing is that is what I was getting paid for cover gigs 30 years ago. When gas was just north of a dollar and rent was a few hundred dollars a month. This is not really a “career” wage per se. Though there are exceptions in my experience this reflects many, many cover musician’s situations. Learn 40 tunes, book a gig, play the same 40-80 tunes until the bookings start getting thin and then learn a few more (or not). Add, rinse, repeat. Many very talented people that I know have resigned themselves to playing many low-paying cover gigs to cover bills as well as working a variety of day jobs which may or may not involve music or performing. My problem with that is that though I admire the hardscrabble work ethic it doesn’t seem to lead to better paying gigs in the long run. Unfortunately it seems to often lead to less money or at least less value for the amount of money earned. (rising cost of living) This is not a progressive career plan.

The goal for an original artist (entertainer) is to create music and a compelling presence (live and in media) that compels people to want buy their music, merch, go their shows, etc. To create an inspiring and memorable musical experience. Most shows for lower-level artists are door deals and unknowns often don’t get paid. However, more established artists (re: performers with a following) can get concert guarantees of $1,000, $5,000 and upwards into the tens and hundreds of thousands of dollars and even millions. This is usually for performing roughly an hour set. Usually no more than 90 minutes. The expectations are much higher than your standard cover band but the payoffs are exponentially higher as well.

I used to live and breathe the life of a recording artist. Producing music, touring, promoting, working the email list, updating the website, etc. Over the years I have allowed myself to fall into more of a hobbyist cover band approach to making music. Learn a few tunes, book gigs, play gigs, etc. etc. Not so much on developing acts or audiences. Just “gigging” and making rent playing music. No diligent day-to-day effort in creating music, an act, a brand, a production or putting on a show. Same old stuff- different day. (same songs and money, too) I can tell you from experience that for me that is neither artistically or financially satisfying. But I blame no one but myself. Just have to do what I want to do and be clear with myself about what it is that I’m trying to do. (and thank goodness for cover gigs helping me to pay the rent in the meantime!)

I just felt the need to air my thoughts about the differences between being in the music/entertainment biz and playing in cover bands. Apples and oranges. Because I got off track. And I’m not getting any younger. (and neither are you) My bad. But awareness induces knowledge and knowledge is power. At least it’s a good place to start.

 

 

 

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Delayed Gratification and Living Out of your Comfort Zone

For the last 22 weeks I have been working out at the gym at least 3 days a week- currently 4. Regular exercise had been a daily habit for me up until a few years ago when I allowed kids, career and life to become excuses not to go. It took a commitment, a friend going as well and making a few social connections at the gym to keep me going. I was perfectly comfortable in my daily habit of heading to the cafe, eating a pastry and working on web stuff every morning. No exercise other than playing gigs. I was starting to look and feel every day of my 48 years.

As a professional musician and performer appearance is just as important as playing well. The entertainment business is a youth – based business. It is also physically, mentally and emotionally challenging. Carrying gear, performing, employment/income uncertainty, unhealthy environments and unusual schedules can take a toll on a body, mind and spirit. Daily physical exercise can help to improve and maintain a high quality of life and is also essential to looking good on stage and in pictures and videos.

So here’s the point- I didn’t feel like going to the gym. So I didn’t. For 5 years. Even when I started to get a little belly- I still didn’t go. Even when my body started to get soft- I still didn’t go. Even when I started to feel the aches and pains of age- I still didn’t go. I knew that it would be a good idea but I refused to make it a priority. It was more comfortable to go to the cafe’ and work on my computer. It wasn’t like I was just sitting watching TV or messing around- I was getting work done.

Ironically a friend of mine who was a regular at the cafe’ challenged me to start going to the gym with him. Our workout time would be exactly the time that I would normally post up at the cafe’ with a pastry in hand and laptop ready to go. So I replaced the cafe’ in the morning habit with the going to the gym habit. Prior to about 5 years ago I was a regular exerciser for all of my adult life. Whether it was running, skating, lifting or whathaveyou I was always physically active. It was a habit and a lifestyle that I had gotten away from.

The gym is 13 miles from my house. That’s about as close as it gets where I live so getting there and back was going to be a major commitment of time and energy during a time when I am usually just comfortably working on the computer eating my morning pastry. It was going to be uncomfortable to work out. I was going to have to change my routine and displace a few habits. I was going to have to engage in challenging and uncomfortable physical exercise at least 3 days a week. When I could have been- should have been- working on the computer and enjoying a pastry with not even a hint of physical or psychic discomfort whatsoever.

My short-term goal was just to go and keep going. My longer-term goal was and still is to look and feel better. Here’s where the delayed gratification part comes in. Nothing of real value happens overnight. Even a hit song written in mere minutes is written in the context of someone who has been playing, studying and writing music for a number of years to get to the point where a good song will come out at all– much less that quickly. A qualification to that statement is that it’s important to work hard and smart. However, in order to progress from wherever we are we usually have to step outside our comfort zone and endure the discomfort until it become our new normal. Sometimes I wake up and I want to stay home but I don’t. Not only did I commit to the habit of going to the gym a few days because I knew that it would make me look and feel better IT ACTUALLY HAS! You see- I stepped outside of my comfort zone for the purpose of making progress and the progress that I’ve made vindicates the time, hard work and sacrifice that I have invested in regular exercise.

Another area of resistance for me has been performing live with my band Smokstik. It has been many years since I have actually done a real Smokstik set. I would attribute that partially to a lack of confidence in my skill to perform and partially a lack of confidence in the quality of the act and whether it’s worth pursuing. I originally moved away from Smokstik (and the Warr) because I lost confidence in the music that I was making. Playing “regular” guitar and bass opened up many other musical (and financial) opportunities for much less effort and I kind of drifted off in that direction. Over the years I still played the Warr, wrote and produced and even released some new Smokstik material and made a few feeble attempts at playing the tunes with drummers. I never even came close to where I was in 2002 when I was on top of my game with Smokstik.

So I played guitar and bass gigs. Taught guitar and bass. Tried to write songs on guitar and bass (none of which resonate with me at all) and pull the Warr out of the closet then put it back in it’s bag and put it back in the closet seemingly on a daily basis. On a number of occasions I have written material and tried with a guitar and bass then also with Warr Guitar Smokstik-style. In case you don’t know when I play the Warr Guitar I am the bass player, guitar player and keyboard player (as well as lead singer) at the same time. I can make sounds playing the Warr by myself that kind of eclipse what a standard bass and guitar do. For argument’s sake I would call the difference in approaches apples and oranges and from a listening perspective a matter of taste. However, from a personal and performance perspective it’s a whole different thing.

I have to admit that the songs and sounds that I make on the Warr resonate with me and they seem like MY voice whereas stuff that I play in guitar and bass doesn’t do much for me personally and always seems to sound like everyone else to me. On the tunes that I have done kind of split-testing on in that I use the same drums and vocals but guitar and bass then Warr I always like the Warr. I LIKE it. So I say to myself “If it sounds good it is good!”. Another fact is that when I record Warr stuff I ALWAYS write my parts as if I would be playing them live. There are no overdubs to thicken up the sound by adding other parts. Smokstik and my approach to the Warr is that what you hear is what it would sound like live. Every Smokstik song I ever released is like that. No trickery. All for real.

The habit of going back and forth with the Warr and Smokstik has put me in a creative rut in that I’m just playing cover gigs and sometimes playing other people’s original tunes while my stuff just sits in my studio at home. I believe that I have finally gotten to the point of frustration with myself and what I’ve been doing that I need to (actually must) endure the discomfort (in the form of feeling inadequate to accomplish the task- not the actual work) of rehearsing my tunes and performing them live. The proof of the potential in that endeavor is that I did indeed write and play all the parts to the songs that I have written, produced and released. I have actually confidently performed most of my catalog live on numerous occassions in the past. I’ve already done that. Over and over again. It’s just been a long time. My playing skill hasn’t really atrophied- it’s just that my confidence that atrophied.

I have given up too soon on countless attempts to revive Smokstik over the years. It has always been my lack of confidence that caused my discomfort and that I allowed to derail my efforts. Unlike going to the gym I felt like I would never get there. So what’s the use? But I’ve already been there! I never quit playing- I just quit playing live like I used to. I never stopped writing and I actually believe that my writing has evolved over the years. I really like some of the new stuff that I’ve done and I would like to hear what it would sound like live. I actually tend to add a bit to the live performances so that would add a whole other element to some of these other tunes. In this case my discomfort is psychic. The physical effort required doesn’t bother me but I’m having a hard time believing in the payoff. I don’t believe that I have the capacity to succeed with the Warr Guitar.

It’s funny because I have no doubt that going to the gym will make me look and feel better yet I feel nothing but doubt that I can master a live set of Smokstik material. Even though I did it before. Apparently my brain is a far greater adversary to my making progress than the real physical discomfort of going to the gym and doing strenuous activities on a regular basis. The idea of Smokstik and playing Warr are always with me so no matter how many times I put that thing in the closet I always give it another chance the next day. However, I am getting so hungry to get out and perform my own material and sing my own words that maybe that desire will help to fuel my fire to overcome my own crippling self-doubt. I’ve tried writing more stuff on bass and guitar and it just doesn’t work for me. It’s not bad per se- it just isn’t me.

I suppose the fear that can go with delayed gratification is that no gratification will ever come. If I don’t eat this yummy donut will my belly get smaller? How many yummy donuts must I not eat to get rid of my belly? Will I always crave yummy donuts even if I manage to avoid them long enough to get rid of my belly? I think what’s missing is the transformation that can take place along the path of pursuing a goal. As those distracting thoughts fade away they are (in some ways unconsciously) being replaced with more productive habits, tastes, activities and so forth. Though I’m not performing live on the Warr right now and I don’t feel confident doing so what about when I am or as I get more confident? Since I started working out I have gradually let go of a number of habits that were not helping me to look and feel better. I’m eating better and I’m actually nurturing myself more because the results from lifting come when you rest– not when you are working. That recovery period is when growth occurs. I’m not where I want to be yet physically but the progress that I’ve made just inspires me to want to make more progress. Perhaps I can find ways to reinforce my efforts in getting my Smokstik chops together as I pursue my ultimate goal which is to be able to confidently perform my Warr Guitar material live.

Writing this post has forced me to think about what my REAL issue is with the Warr Guitar vs everything else dilemma. I believe that like my lack of desire to be physically uncomfortable exercising I have a lack of desire to be psychically uncomfortable in risking injury to my ego pursuing Smokstik. I suppose that outlining my possible solutions to overcoming my fear and lack of confidence could be a whole other post so it will be.

So in conclusion- in order to make progress we need to face discomfort- be it physical, psychic or both. If you need incentives and support in achieving your goal seek it out. Identify micro goals and celebrate accomplishing them as you pursue your greater goal. Find supporters and like minds to help buoy your spirit. Find inspiration and motivation from other successful people and from your own past efforts and successes. In short- make a goal, make a plan, get to work and don’t give up until you get there. Carpe diem!!!

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